SILLY MEN AND TRICKY WOMEN

Many PNG women have all kinds of tricks to separate men from their money.

Men of the world are losing the propaganda battle as orchestrated by activist women.

They are generally portrayed as being violent and brutal in dealings with women. They are seen in a light even worse than the Jews of 1944.

The problem is that men are too stupid to fight fire with fire. They do not see it is their role to argue with a horde of lesbian women who are pulling the strings. Their brains are not wired up for women’s tricks.

Men are often the stabilizing influence in families. They may be putty in the hands of wives and daughters. Many men have more love than brains. I am one of them. 

My daughters can get anything out of me by just saying the right words:

Daughter: Daddy. Can you text me K10 credits?
Father: What do you think I am? I am broke !!
Daughter: Thank you daddy. Love you. Bye.

Ten minutes later, the K10 of credits arrives on her phone. What a fool I am.

Men are geared up for arguing and physical confrontation. Some women are the same. Men may be generally truthful in reporting events. Women know how to twist the truth.

A woman may bash her husband and be injured in the process of the man defending himself.

But when it comes to reporting to the police, the woman claims that this was domestic violence initiated by the man.

If she goes to Medecins Sans Frontieres, the case will be listed against violence of the man. Defend yourself you fool. He does not know he has been defamed at the medical clinic.

Many women know how to tell lies about money. They will tell the man they need K400 for food. But he does not know that she puts half of that away for herself.

So many women in PNG are working in employment but never show their pay slips to the husband. She may claim that she receives K250 whereas she gets K450 much of which stays in her pocket.

She expects the money for food to come out of the husband’s pay. Her money may go on beer, cigarettes and gambling.

A friend was complaining that his wife went to the village but texted to say she was sick and in Mt Hagen hospital. Please send money.

Two weeks later he rang a friend who said he met the wife in Kundiawa. She was not in hospital at all.

Men may never initiate tricks. They only act in response to women’s tricks.

Mobile phones enable men and women to play tricks. We have all been used to landline phones. The person is where the phone is.

But a mobile phone enables women to play all kinds of tricks on men for money. They can say they are anywhere.

Tricks can be played on expatriate men as they are the most stupid. They generally know nothing about PNG or the women.

Scenario 1: A PNG woman has come to live with a white man. She can only stay two days as she has a sick mother she has to look after. She is old and will soon die. Could you help me with a little money to look after her?

Conclusion: She may have no sick mother. She is living with her husband and staying with the white man with or without his knowledge. She is earning money for the family.

But then she may not have a husband but is playing the same trick on another white man. She now goes to him for two days. Could you help me with a little money to look after my sick mother? Sure, have K400.

Scenario 2. A lovely young woman lives with a white man. But she says she had a violent husband who bashes her. She left him but he is looking for her. She left her baby with her auntie. Could you let me have a little money to look after my baby. I am afraid to go to work now.

Conclusion: She has no baby and no violent husband. She wants the new man to never want to be seen out with her. The trick will come unstuck if the other expatriate men see her with another white man. She collects money from him and goes to the next man to stay for two days. Could you let me have a little money to look after my baby.

The next trick is to have a father who just died in Kundiawa. I have no money to go to his funeral.(sob). Could you help me darling? (sob) Sure have K1000 for fares and food. Oh thank you. You are so wonderful. (sucker).

Scenario 3:  A PNG man and his wife are employed and receive a wage each but can not make ends meet by the end of the fortnight. She says there is a woman at work who credits money at 50% interest. 

This is the going rate in PNG. She brings home the credited money but the husband has to pay back K100 plus K50. One day they are near the woman's house and the man wants to meet her. The wife refuses with all kinds of excuses.

Conclusion: There is no woman crediting the money. It is the wife who has understated her wage and has K100 left over. She credits it to her husband. He give her money for bus fare and lunch out of the credited money. Then he has to pay his wife back believing it is going to a money lender. Their relationship did not last long after that.

The biggest trick can be played by pregnant women on men. She can phone a dozen men to announce they are the father.

Her fortnightly income can amount to thousands of kina from several loving and stupid men. It may be that she is not pregnant at all.

The tables are turning on men with laws on violence to women. The gentle and loving men may be at the mercy of a tricky woman.

She works to strip him of dignity and self worth. She requires him to be home straight after work.

He is to hand over all his pay and explain if he needs any money. She dirties his name to other family members. He is forever trying to reach a standard that she has smashed down.

But there are many good men in Papua New Guinea. We just have to stand outside school gates to see men arriving escorting a small child to school and picking up in the afternoon.

We see men carrying their child on their shoulders around town. Some even have carry slings for a baby. I don’t see me with a sling. That's not me.

Many girls love their silly dad and feel happy that they can twist him around their little finger. They hope they find a loving silly husband just like their loving silly dad in years to come.

Men should not have to defend themselves against liars in dresses.