CONTROLLED BY A PNG WOMAN

I have been reading a report on Google that sets out a number of case studies of gay and lesbian domestic violence. The victims in each case study spoke of initial attraction, gradual controlling behaviour and regular and systematic violence.

 

I have just realized that this is what was happening to me with Grace. She was moving to take total control ending in a violent bashing by her policeman father. Please click:

TWO VIOLENT WOMEN IN MY LIFE

She started slowly. There was initial violence over small matters. This would be followed by apology and soul searching about whether or not I loved her.

Then two weeks later there would be more violence. She would threaten suicide if I kicked her out. She loved me so much. This is controlling behaviour.

She demanded money and this would be followed by abuse and violence if she did not get what she wanted. She may have thought that continued violence would wear me down and force me to give her large sums of money. This too is controlling behaviour.

The ultimate control was to tell her family she was being abused. The family turned against me without my realizing that anything was wrong.

Then she had me bashed by her policeman father. This was the finale in controlling violence. I kicked her out. Her father was reported to Police Complaints for his brutal attack.

She left all her clothes at the house but has never been back. She is in hiding from  investigation by the police complaints section. There is the matter of the identity of the second violent policeman whom she called uncle.

This is violence by a PNG woman against a man. The UN lesbians think he  probably deserved it.
 

TRICKING DOCTORS AND EMPLOYERS

We all have to present a positive image to our employers. There is no value in a woman coming to work with a black eye and swollen lips to tell the employer that she was out drinking homebrew and was bashed by a woman for having sex with her husband.

 

The trick is to tell the employer that she went to church fellowship the night before and was bashed by her father when she came home. He said she was out with men. But it was not true (sob). I was singing hymns.

 

The employer may then give her the day off to rest. What a kind man you are. If only my dad were like you. Aww shucks.

 

She had been to the doctor and was given a statement on her injuries. The woman she bashed went to the doctor and was given a report telling that she was attacked by a group of raskols.

 

Tricking doctors is a world wide phenomenon. Google reports tell of how lesbian women in the US tell the doctor or welfare they were bashed by an uncle or brother. They were really bashed by their lesbian lover.

Gay men tell the doctor that they were bashed at a bar or football match by a group of men. They will never say they were bashed by their gay lover. Please click:

A Same-Sex Domestic Violence Epidemic Is Silent - Maya Shwayder ...

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been a huge stumbling block for gays and lesbians seeking refuge from

an abuser.

So a lesbian supporting organization like Medecins Sans Frontieres has propaganda and ideological reasons for putting all the blame on men. It is good for business.

Medical organizations find it easy to make false statistics. They can not reveal any more information. Professional confidentiality you know.
 

WORLD AIDS DAY 2013 IS IN TROUBLE

It is not difficult to notice that the UN has run out of steam on AIDS messages. It has been far too fake in the last year. Any new message is bound to provoke deep criticism.

 

There has been a focus on violence to women. But it has been all fake and promoted by the UN lesbians. There was the fake 6 nation survey on rape in which 10,000 imaginary men were interviewed.

 

In Papua New Guinea was the fake survey on 64% of men admitting to gang rape. There was the fake account of violence in the markets of Port Moresby. A fake report hit the headlines from the UN on 2 women raped in the main market.

 

Perhaps they can talk about the rise in HIV infections particularly among gay men in the world. Traditional families are becoming increasingly spared the trauma of HIV infection.

 

The UN lesbians are running out of steam. Family violence is starting to include violence among lesbian and gay partners, women and girls among women and girls and of siblings and other children. It is no longer valid to focus only on men.

 

But the lesbian activists refuse to let their anti-man ideology go. That is all they have.

FATHERS AND DAUGHTERS

There seems to be a world conspiracy to show the world that all men are violent and brutal to women. The UN lesbians in particular are saying that all women are kind, gentle and abused by men.

This is a blatant lie. Many men are kind people who look after their daughters and worry about their safety as they grow up.

I have two daughters in Papua New Guinea. I have spent so much time worrying about them. I have escorted them to and from their friends’ houses at night and made sure they were in the house before the late hours.

My elder daughter has had men try to force her into cars. On one occasion she ran across the huge water pipe at the Erima Bridge and disappeared into Big Rooster Chicken.

I have been talking to them of stranger danger all their young lives. What would you do if .... a man said he was daddy's friend and had to take you to the hospital? Your daddy is sick.

What would you do if ..... a car stopped at the footpath? A man said he needed to talk to you. Where would you run? He said he could not hear you and wanted you to come closer.

In their early teenage years, both gave problems. One night about 2 years ago, they were not at home but said they were at their girl friend’s house.

They were not there. A friend phoned to say they were on Garden Hills drinking home brew with a group of young people.

A later call advised that they were being dragged up the hill by a group of boys. My blood went cold as I rushed to Garden Hills.

After some time, I found my elder 15 year old daughter who was hiding in a friend’s bathroom. She was drunk and would not tell me where her 14 year old sister was. It was dark and I was in foreign territory with my daughters.

I was frantic to find my younger daughter. I beat my elder daughter harder than I have ever done to anyone. She still would not say.

At last at about 10.00pm, a friend on Garden Hills rang to say she was at their house. She had been found. That incident took years off my life.

I always feel compassion for the single parent man who lived at Hanuabada village with his 14 year old daughter.

One day, she did not come home from school and would not answer her mobile phone. He was very worried.

Like other fathers, his mind turned to his daughter being raped, violated, murdered and kidnapped. He was probably quite frantic with fear. So often, there are reports in the PNG media of young women who just disappear.

His daughter finally came home around 7.00 pm to say she was with her girl friend. That may not have been the truth. The father beat her so hard that she died in hospital.

Now she is in her grave and he is in prison. He probably hates himself and cries for his daughter. He has spoiled her life and his.

I showed this report to my elder daughter and she accepted it. She said it was part of her past teenage life that she wants to forget. Telling lies to parents seems to be part of PNG culture. Loving parents win in the end. Please click:

MY BEST FRIEND IS MY ELDER DAUGHTER

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SHOCKING SEXUAL VIOLENCE BY KIDS

The National 27 November 2013

There is a report from the Office for the Children's Commissioner in England that refers to shocking sexual violence from children 12 or 13 years old. In some areas, rape is seen as normal or inevitable.

The Deputy Commissioner spoke of sheer sadism of sexual, violence by children. She said there is a long way to go before  we believe the appalling reality of sexual violence by children. Please click:
 

Child-on-child sexual violence: are the media – and the Children's ...

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In gangs, young girls are passed around as sexual toys.

AIDS Holistics comments on the explicit pornography on mobile phones that are available to all including young children in gangs.

Let the UN lesbians come to terms with the violence of children in the count of injury towards children. It may have nothing to do with husbands, brothers or fathers.  Please click:

 

FAKE UN REPORTS IGNORE SIBLING VIOLENCE

 

VIOLENCE BY HUSBANDS, BROTHERS OR FATHERS

The National 28 November 2012

We do not wish to see women being absent from work because of aggression and violence by their husbands, brothers or fathers. says the human resources manager of Air Niugini.

 

There is a certain naivety in this call. It is following the politically correct view as demanded by the United Nations. There should not be violence but we have to ascertain if the report is true.

 

In the modern era, there may be many women absent from work because they were out all night drinking beer or homebrew. They did not let their family know where they were. They were involved in a fight with other women or men.

 

The wife did not come home to look after her kids. She spent all hours of the night playing cards somewhere. Her mobile phone was turned off all night. The family was tired of her doing what she likes.

 

There have been reports that she sells her body at discos to buy beer and play cards. She has bruises on the face because she was in a fight with a woman outside a disco.

She was having sex with the woman's husband. So she tells her employer that she has been bashed by her father. Then she will not be sacked.

 

Other wives or daughters may have been cruelly bashed by husbands, fathers or brothers. But that is not the full picture.

This woman was in a fight at a village disco. The woman she fought was her cousin. So Medecins Sans Frontieres deems that as family violence - extended family that is.

And who told Air Niugini she had been bashed by her father? She did. But she had a medical certificate. Who told the doctor she had been bashed by her father? She did. Hmmm I see.

 

MASSIVE HOAX ON WHITE RIBBON DAY

It is White Ribbon Day and the women's groups are out in force in Papua New Guinea. There are disgraceful fake reports in the media and social media. Please click:

Epidemic of family violence requires a coordinated response

The report above is from the organization Medecins Sans Frontieres. It is full of fake statements. There are said to have been 18,000 women and children treated for violence since 2007.

Let us look at that figure. In 7 years, there have been 18,000 "survivors"of violence. That is 2500 a year. That is 200 a month across PNG and 50 a week, That is 7 and a bit women or children a day across the nation. The severity of their injuries is a secret.

But even that is fake. Many will be men. These people sincere/silly/corrupt do not understand PNG society.

These days, many young women see that they are cool if they drink homebrew, smoke marijuana and get into fights with other women. Gangs of women fight in the car park at nightclubs.

They will fight over a taxi or a man. The women's prison at Bomana is full of women who killed other women.

That was a good night out. Did you see the blood spurt out of her nose when I hit her? Is that family or sexual violence? She was from the same village. Put it down as family violence. That makes it look as if she was bashed by her father.

There is fakery in the term Family and Sexual Violence. In a traditional society, are we talking about extended family of hundreds or nuclear family? Every act of violence in a village can be falsely termed as family violence. It gives the impression of family men all bashing their wives and children.

Women have new freedom. It means they can bash their husbands and then run to report his violence to the police. Many fights in the home will be started by women. Many men will fight to protect themselves.

The founder of AIDS Holistics reported being bashed by a policeman when his daughter rang crying that she was being abused. She was suffering from TB and bronchitis from smoking.

There was no violence or abuse from the man only the woman. She has long gone and a formal complaint made on police violence. Initiating violence is a trick of PNG women who then claim the man was violent and she was just the loving family blessed virgin. . Please click:

BASHED BY A CHIEF INSPECTOR OF PNG POLICE

We read of sibling violence recently posted on this website. Women are violent to children especially when the child is hungry and crying for food and the mother wants to play cards. Please click:

FAKE UN REPORTS IGNORE SIBLING VIOLENCE

We read recently that the homebrew trade in the Papuan Block in Lae is run by women. They make and distribute homebrew.

The world-wide hoax has been generated by the UN lesbians. There is a lesbian agenda in Medecins Sans Frontieres. We are being told by MSF and the UN that 64% of PNG men confess to gang rape. Liars. Please click:

BBC REPORT REJECTS FAKE UN FINDINGS ON RAPE