VIOLENCE AT 3 ANGELS CARE

There have been much we learned in Papua New Guinea in the first 12 years of the HIV/AIDS campaign. The first is never to trust advisors of the United Nations and Australian AID. They have their own sexual  agenda to force on the community.

The second is never to set up a live-in care centre for PLWHA. What if these people live for 30 more years with antiretroviral drugs and are in employment receiving a wage? They should be with family.

Does that mean that the tax payer has to fund live-in accommodation with free rental, power, water and food for the next 30 years. What a great life. We should all be HIV positive.

When I met Joe Lari in 2004, he had his problems as I had mine. He had a care centre 3 Angels Care at East Boroko in Port Moresby. I was being harassed by gay Australian advisors trying to kill the Positive Living message.

Joe and I planned to set up a Positive Living Training Centre for people with HIV/AIDS and take people in for 2 weeks to counsel them and help them to live by Positive Living.

But the Australian lesbian advisors found out and had secretly told the people at 3 Angels Care that the Positive Living Training centre was not acceptable to AusAID. They were told they could be funded to live there permanently with taxpayer’s money if they stopped the Training Centre.

Joe wanted me to move in as caretaker but I had other commitments. There was trouble at the centre that Joe could not handle. There was drunkenness, prostitution and violence. The verandah was often covered in empty beer bottles.

Margaret Marabe was HIV positive and made herself boss ruling the centre with a long bladed kitchen knife. She was the prostitute and brought men in late at night. Joe had evicted her twice but she refused to go.

I finally offered to go on a trial basis with my children. That was not a wise move. The key troublemakers told me I was not welcome as this was not an AIDS centre any more but their private accommodation. They claimed to have been allowed to stay by the AusAID advisors.

Besides, they told me I was especially not welcome as I was a violent wife beating child molester. They were part of the Australian lesbian conspiracy to stop the Positive Living Training Centre.

I was given a month to leave. During that time, I witnessed horrific violence. Each woman staying at the centre had brought a man to live with them.

Each man was violent drunk who would bash the woman on a daily basis. So from the point of view of Joe Lari and me, this was not a Positive Living centre at all. I wanted to leave.

Each man staying illegally at the centre had tried to force me to leave. Sandy’s boyfriend had told me to be out that night. I was taking my daughters to safety when he intercepted us in the dark and hit me with something.

I was unconscious on the road and came to about half an hour later to find my two daughters crying and sitting with me, afraid that I was dead.

I reported the matter to the Kila Kila police and the matter was taken down by an AFP officer but no action was taken. The AFP officer had declared that the girls of 7 and 6 years old were too young to testify as witnesses.

Then I was bashed with an iron rod by Elaripe’s boy friend. My daughter Rachael said he came up behind me with an iron rod and hit me. Then he kicked me in the body as I lay on the ground. I did not want to respond with violence. That would be exactly what they wanted.

One night my daughters were having a shower. The bathroom was large with 3 shower cubicles. They were afraid of the illegal men at the centre coming in and molesting them. So I would sit in the shower room on a long bench and wait for my 7 and 6 year old daughters.

One night the PLWHA creeps got into their heads that this was the chance to pin child molesting on me. They burst in and demanded custody of the girls.

They would have me arrested the next day. I still hear a voice “He has molested PNG women. Kill him”. But it never happened. I told them there would be violence if they touched my daughters. I had an iron bar in my room. The accusation died.

The last attempt was to have me killed on the accusation of molesting Marabe’s son. I was dragged before a kangaroo court escorted by village men with bush knives. They said if I tried to escape, they would cut me up. 

I told Joe Lari that I was leaving. I did not want my daughters to live in such a low class environment. But the problem solved itself. One night Elaripe’s boy friend came back drunk and angry that his family said he was HIV positive.

Stupid boy. What did he expect? Elaripe was HIV + and he was having sex with his cousin's wife..

He demanded to come into the room but she refused. So he found an axe and smashed the door down. Can you imagine any person staying at a guest house and smashing a door down? Joe evicted us all.

He wanted me to stay to care for the empty care centre. But the criminal PLWHA told him that they would burn the centre down if I did not leave too.

 

This was all the work of fat, ugly 120 kg AusAID lesbian frump Sharon Walker who told these people that AusAID does not support Positive Living and would not fund a Training Centre. It was more that the lesbian advisors did not want a family approach.

Funding had stopped and would only start again when they had removed Copeland. Besides he was a violent wife basher and child molester. All men at the centre were bashers. I was the only one who was not.

They all ended up in the street. All had rejected their families but blamed their families. I have no sympathy for any of them.

Elaripe works for I Gat Hope and has a habit of making false statements in the media about the Government running out of ARV drugs.

Marabe had a recent report in the media about wanting funding to set up a Positive Living care centre in Hela province. The violent prostitute with a long bladed knife wants to care for people and be given a house to steal.

Momo is probably living under a tree somewhere. With all his smoking and boozing, he may be under the ground.

OPEN LETTER TO AIDS BULLIES

This letter is addressed to the following bullies who harrassed and intimidated the founder of AIDS Holistics in the period between 2001 and 2010.

Chief Sir Peter Barter
Profesor Michael Toole
Fr. Jude Ronayne -Ford

Elizabeth Cox

Stewart Watson

Keith Jackson,

Sharon Walker

Peter Momo

The false claim was made over several years that he was a violent wife basher and child molester. This has been the source of great pain for this family.

The intention was malicious and designed to destroy the Positive Living message in favour of a paedophile message supported by AusAID and UN.

If any of these creeps has proof, we ask that they place a report as a comment on this blog. I promise to post any comment.

We expected help and support as an AIDS infected family but were only given hate and lies. Barter advised that my children were to be put into care on the basis of no proof. He was very much aware of the gay and lesbian message of hate.

Any substantial proof should be passed to the Sexual Offences Squad (SOS) at Boroko Police Station.

Professor Toole above was the Director of Burnet Institute that had a strictly gay and lesbian agenda and opposed to Family Positive Living. On his blog PNG Attitude, Keith Jackson claimed I had trashed a prestigious medical organization.

That was Burnet. I hope Jackson was right. Recently Burnet was reported as running a course to empower men !! Does that mean Toole is out on his gay ear?

Yours sincerely,

Bruce Copeland

Rachael & Lisa

on behalf of Linda (dec) and

Jonathan (dec)

BULLYING A DENIAL OF HUMAN RIGHTS

The National 18 June 2015 Dr Uma Ambi Principal Advisor –

Mental Health Services.

Bullying is a basic denial of rights among my dear readers. These are preventable and reversible with positive interventions.

We must stand as a pillar of strength to anyone who is a victim as they could be our partners or loved ones who are going through this painful passage.

Bullying can happen anywhere. It comes in different forms. But all cause distress and pain for the person who is being bullied.

If you are being bullied or know anyone who is being bullied, there are ways to stop the bullying with places to go for advice and support.

Bullying occurs when people use words or actions against an individual or group, causing stress and risk to their well being.

Bullies are usually in a position of power or influence over the person they bully. They usually want to make the person feel less powerful or helpless.

Bullying can happen anywhere including school, work, home, online or via text messaging or email.

If you are being bullied you may feel:

guilty because you think it is your fault,

hopeless, because you do not know how to get out,

alone with no one to help you,

depressed and rejected by others,

unsafe and afraid,

confused and stressed,

ashamed that it is happening.

Bullying can affect your mental health at any age. It can lead to loneliness, worry, and depression.

People bullied in the workplace have a higher risk of depression and thoughts of suicide.

Remember you have the right to feel safe and be treated with fairness and respect.

Bullying can be:

physical, such as assaulting, poking, tripping and pushing,

verbal, such as name calling, insults or abuse,

social, such as lying, spreading rumours and deliberately excluding,

psychological such as threatening, manipulating or stalking,

computer generated on email, mobile phones and networking sites.

Your employer has a legal responsibility to provide a safe work place and a duty to care for your health.

Comment: In reading this report by Dr Uma, I felt that someone had walked over my grave. The bullying I have experienced at the hands of the gay, lesbian and paedophile advisors is all here.

I suffered the following hate from bullies Cox, Watson, Walker, Jackson, Barter and Judas priest in opposition to Positive Living:

Remove Family and Faith from Positive Living !! (Cox & Watson)

intellectually incapable of understanding HIV/AIDS, (Jude)

a wife basher and child molester, (Cox)

attacked Linda and burned her with a hot iron, (Jude)

forced into the apartment of Cox to use her computer, (Cox)

broke into her office and stole files,(Cox)

stole Positive Living message from AusAID advisors, (Cox)
You should be in gaol ( Walker)
You have abused LInda and your daughters (Walker)

sexually abused your daughters, (Cox)
You are banned from the AIDS building, white trash (gay boy)

demented, full blown AIDS, killed women, (cyberstalker - Nalu)
sent sexually abusive emails to women (cyberstalker - Nalu))

sexually abused a boy and girl at 3 Angels Care, ( Momo)

promoted a false message of Positive Living, (Watson)

killed Linda and son with violence. (Momo)
my friend will put a knife in your guts. (Momo)
daughters to be taken into care for sexual abuse, (Barter)

deportation to take place. (Barter)
no idea of medical matters (Jackson)
defames people who are working hard (Jackson)

I have been humiliated by false reports on social media, threatened with death, banned from the AIDS building, banned from all funding from the UN and AusAID, evicted from meetings with reasons explained to meeting, knocked unconscious from behind, bashed with an iron bar and kicked in the body.

These creeps work on the basis that if the same lies are told over and over with other people expanding on those lies, then lies become truth and innocent people become guilty. I have two lovely daughters I am supposed to have sexually abused. 

A recent report in the media stated that paedophile activity among PNG men is on the rise. Grassroots men are going to gaol. Yet two of the bullies above are paedophile and spent their lives ripping and tearing the anuses of boys. They bullied AIDS Holistics to silence all reference to paedophile sex. It helps to be a millionaire with political influence.

Another is a lesbian paedophile who specialized in adopting young women who slept in her house. She was most vocal that I abused my daughters. It was a diversionary tactic to hide her little girls in her apartment.

The paedophiles defame me that I have molested my daughters who love me dearly. We all look after one another. They are my best friends on the planet. They gave me a rose on Mother's day this year. Please click:

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I am nothing like the hate bullies have painted me. I am a gentle, loving and intellectual man who has committed himself to helping the nation and other nations with a positive message of health. God knows. 

Hitler used the same technique with the Jews. There are old German people today who went through the Nazi propaganda of the 1930s in German schools and who still hate the Jews.

Dr Ambi -You give me peace. You have a great column in The National.


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HATE AGAINST AIDS HOLISTICS

In 2004, life was changing for me the founder of AIDS Holistics, as the gay and lesbian advisors had gone. Elizabeth Cox had her contract not renewed for fraud in selling her own AIDS awareness books to AusAID.

The Positive Living message was starting to flourish with a two year contract to write Positive Living reports for The National.

With a focus on family, AIDS Holistics was first in the country to talk of the rights of women and girls. My friend and journalist Frank told me I had put Positive Living on the map.

This must have driven the lesbian advisors crazy as they had the view that all men are violent and all women are abused. I had to be stopped. Let’s tell everyone that he is a wife basher and child molester.

Over the years, I have brought a balance to the man-woman relationship in this country and made public the fake reports put out by UN lesbian activists.

They had a fake survey on Buka about men raping their wives. Dr John Momis called them liars. They claimed that two women were raped at Gordons Market. The Minister for Police rebutted their claim. They claimed that 64% of PNG men had been involved in gang rape. Liars.

Even Dame Carol Kidu recently stated that she opposed the UN approach to rights of women. They do not have rights alone but in the context of community and family. The rights of women was family not lesbian.

Cox set up Save the Children with Jacqui Badcock and moved on to be the Head of ANTIFAM aka UN Women. Save the Children from whom? Stewart Watson went on to be the UNAIDS anti-family and anti-faith man.

The place of Cox was taken by one Sharon Walker. One day, I went to her office in the AIDS building to introduce myself. She was working at her desk and did not even look up. She told me she knew who I was.

Her only wish was that I would be gaoled for my violence and sexual abuse of Linda and my daughters.

So she had been briefed by the paedophile lesbian advisor Cox and/or the Satan priest Jude. She was told to bury Positive Living as it was directly in conflict with the paedophile agenda of the foreign advisors.

I was repulsed by Walker. She cannot help being a tall fat ugly frump but she was also a racist and bully. She had the manner of a colonial missus. 

She was a woman who had learned that people are frightened when she throws her 200 kg body around. She treated anyone who disagreed with her with total contempt. She hated me at first sight.

On two occasions< I went to a meeting where she was the Chairperson. She announced to all that the meeting would not start until I left. I walked out as there seemed nothing more to do. The AusAID advisors were generally trash.

I tend to be friends with educated people in Papua New Guinea who value the Positive Living message and reject the lies and false reports of the foreign UN and AusAID paedophiles. Some have said they will testify on my behalf if I should ever end up in Court.

I have friend Dr Uma Ambi who writes a column Mind Watch in The National. She says she reads my blog. But she is an expert in her own field. Today, she writes on bullying as an infringement of basic rights.

Her column is so closely linked to the harassment, bullying and violence against me over a decade by AusAID, UN and Catholic trash. The victim is bullied to the point of feeling that it is all our fault.

We feel hopeless as we don’t know how to get out of the situation. We are alone with no-one to help us. We feel unsafe and afraid, confused and stressed. We feel ashamed that it is happening.

But I had a friend who gave me peace. He was Joe Lari of 3 Angels Care. He was Seventh Day Adventist and opened my eyes to the Positive Living message of his church. He introduced me to the standard SDA text on nutrition by Jethro Kloss Back to Eden. Please click:

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I did not use Positive Living to bash the Bible. It was a message for all faiths Christian and non-Christian as well as non-believers. But Joe and I talked to congregations after SDA church services. I took part in the Family home study and used the book on my own website.

Joe had problems with his care centre 3 Angels Care at Boroko. He had planned to set up a centre for HIV sufferers. But over the year he took to set it up, the centre had been stolen by a group of HIV infected criminals. They were Peter Momo, Maura Elaripe and Margaret Marabe.

They had come to know that Joe was weak and placed too much faith in Jesus who would never evict them from the accommodation they now claimed was theirs.

Joe asked me to move in as caretaker. Looking back, he undoubtedly knew I would suffer violence but he still wanted me to go. We had planned to set up a Positive Living Training Centre. 

But the centre was under the violent control of HIV + Margaret Marabe who ruled with a kitchen knife. She decided who came and who went. She removed people at knife point.

The criminal PLWHA decided that I should move out with my daughters. They showed they were in direct contact with the UN and AusAID paedophile advisors by telling me I was a murderer who killed Linda and my son with violence. I had molested my daughters. I should leave.

They tried to set me up with sexually molesting four children at the centre and even planned to have me cut up by bush knife. Two of the children were my daughters.

Only last Mother’s Day, my daughters gave me a rose to acknowledge that I was always their mother and father. But these HIV infected creeps wanted me out.

The women in the centre made their own rules. Each had a street husband, all of who were drunks and violent. Sandy had a corporal from Taurama Barracks who would come on the weekends, often drunk and violent. He had a married quarter at Taurama with a wife and kids.

Momo was the centre drunk. He used to work for UNDP promoting.......Positive Living. But he smoked, drank and spent his K800 on beer.

My daughters were horrified when he was going out one night but his wife wanted money for the baby. He bashed her and kicked her in the head as she lay bleeding on the floor. He bashed her because her son was mixed race. Not his.

Marabe was the sex worker who used to bring men into the centre late at night for sex in her room. This was in no way a Positive Living centre.

Maura Elaripe was HIV with her husband Max whom she left and married his cousin. He was stupid drunk boy who would bash Maura.

One night towards the end, he arrived back drunk and accusing her of making him HIV infected. When she would not open the door to her room, he bashed the door down with an axe.

Loe Lari the owner closed the centre when he heard the door was smashed down. We all had to leave. On the last day, Momo arrived with a man to whom I was introduced. He said that he blamed me for the eviction and had arranged for this man to put a knife in my guts when he sees me in town.

The lesson for all of this was that a live-in care centre was a waste of time. There was no Positive Living among these people. All blamed their families which made them popular with the AusAID lesbians.

Momo had lived with each of his brothers but been removed for drunken violence. One brother was a pastor.

Elaripe was in danger in going to her village given the accusation that she had infected her husband’s cousin while knowing she was HIV positive.

Marabe just wanted to be a sex worker. I meet Sandy at times at 5 Mile. She says she is not Sandy and does not know me. Sure Sandy.

They were told that funding would continue if the Positive Living Training Centre was blocked. That was the advice of the fat, ugly frump Walker who was the new Care and Counselling advisor.

But they were evicted and the care centre sold but not before the threat to burn the centre down.

If people living with HIV/AIDS are rejected by family, it may be best for many to live under a tree not in the luxury of a house with free food.

Their rejection may have something to do with the stress, worry, sex and drunken violence they brought to family members.

Over the 4 months as caretaker, I suffered 2 stabbings from Marabe, bashing and being knocked unconscious by Sandy’s weekend husband, and bashed from behind with an iron bar by Maura’s husband’s cousin.

FINAL BREAK WITH SATAN PRIEST

I was aware that the Catholic Archbishop had a appointed the Satan priest to take care of AIDS sufferers.

But I also knew that this was a bad choice as the priest was an arrogant man with contempt for church authority and a determination to do his own thing. I am sure he would have told the Archbishop to go to hell.

What chance did I have as a lay Catholic? The priest regarded me as rubbish meat. That is why he did not have a parish but was stuck in a priory at Bomana.

He had contempt for the Positive Living message that would have involved him in study and support for family.

One of the major problems of priests was loneliness. No one came to see if this priest lived or died. Linda and I became his friends and would visit him. Linda knitted him a woollen hat in Franciscan brown. I stayed with Linda to bring some softness to the Satan priest.

I was aware that I knew more than he did on AIDS awareness. So I tried to lift his level of knowledge but he refused to accept any advice from me. I gave up after a number of months.

Then Linda slowly started to drop in body and mind in her 8^th year of infection. This was the onset of dementia without ARV. The priest did not believe she was violent. 

He had an eye for good looking women and Linda was most beautiful. He had the eye for beauty of the average womaniser.

She horrified me and my children with her violence and fears of being killed by spirits and evil men.

One day, a branch broke off in the tree near the house. She was determined that this was a sign from evil spirits. Linda insisted that I go to the Catholic shop and buy crucifixes to bury in the garden.

She was convinced that an old woman had turned herself into a black bird and was waiting to kill her from a tree near the house.

She woke up dreaming that her room was full of men and women come to take her body and soul.

She would bash my daughters if they let me hug and kiss them. Linda never touched her own children in love.

I used to throw her 9 year old son around just to let him feel that a man cared for him.

After my son died of AIDS, Linda needed some outlet so she used to have me take her daughter and friend with her to a disco. I would pick them up at 3.00am.

One Saturday, she was ironing her dress when I told her we had no money. She cried and went wild.

Pulling the ironing cord from the wall, she dropped to her knees and wrapped the cord around my legs. Then she burned me several times on the legs with the point of the iron.

I grabbed the iron and stopped her but not before the iron had burned her on the neck and shoulders. We were both injured. That was the only time she had been violent to me in 3 years. She mainly bashed my daughters when I was at work. She was becoming demented and violent.

I decided to calm her down by going for a drive. My hidden motive was to take her to Father Jude at Bomana to show him the effects of her violence.

We met and I told him what had happened. He took Linda and sat under a tree while I waited for about half an hour.

He then came over to me and told me to take her home to wait for the police to come. He said that the burns on her body were vicious domestic violence. I would be charged and arrested. 

He was not interested in seeing the burns on my lower legs. I was convicted on 50% of the evidence. This was his dream come true. The fact that my burns were on my lower legs and hers were on her neck, showed she was kneeling and I was standing. She was wielding the hot iron.

Now he could kill the Positive Living family message all of which was based on Scripture - faith, hope, peace. love, family, friends, truth, compassion, trust, patience, fellowship and forgiveness. Had the priest never read his Bible? St Paul wrote on those qualities. The priest had obviously never read the commandment on "bearing false witness".

For the first time in my life, I swore at a priest and told him he was a stupid and vicious old bastard. I asked why I would have brought her to him to be a witness if I had burned her.

I said that I was showing him the effects of mental instability and dementia in final AIDS that he claimed never to have seen.

This was his perfect chance for Satan priest to destroy the Positive Living message. He would be confirming the fake message by the AusAID paedophiles that I was a violent man.

I took Linda home and she was happy. The dementia had lifted and she seemed to remember nothing.

The Satan priest did not go to the police. He knew that he would have made a false report. Instead, he advised Cox, the lesbian advisor in the AIDS campaign.

Within a few weeks, the story of my burning Linda was around the town. The Catholic hierarchy was wise to keep the Satan priest out of parish work. He could never be trusted with confidentiality in the confessional. He would blab all he had heard around the town.

From that time, I stopped all contact with him. He continued to work to destroy Positive Living from us. He failed.

If God is for us, who can be against us? Certainly not a Satan priest.

The saddest memory of Linda and Jonathan came with my singing him to sleep at night. He would sleep in my bed with lullabies sung gently in his ear.

I would sing Brahm’s Lullaby and a song by Roger Whittaker “For you are beautiful and I have loved you dearly more dearly than the spoken words can tell”. He would sleep in minutes.

In the months after he died in late 2002, Linda was under the house listening to the radio. She started crying and sobbing. 

Rushing down, I found her holding the radio to her chest. She was listening to the song by Roger Whittaker. That was the real Linda. Shame on you priest.

POSITIVE LIVING FOR ALL HEALTH

Over the last 15 years, AIDS Holistics has promoted Positive Living for the healthy lifestyle of all, primarily for those suffering from HIV/AIDS.

But the message applies to all people for the lifestyle sicknesses that they may suffer.

Positive Living is a long term lifestyle for us all. It can protect us from cancer, diabetes 2, heart disease, damaged kidneys and liver, gout and many more.

It is not a lifestyle that we take up when we are on the verge of death. It is not necessarily a cure once we are inflicted with some disease.

We cannot stop smoking as our lungs collapse with emphysema and expect that all will be well. Heart attacks may not cease if we stop a diet of fat. Diabetes will be with us despite reduced consumption of sugar.

Positive Living will help us to live long if we are infected with HIV/AIDS. This is a complicated matter as sufferers may be (1) slow progressors (2) fast progressors or (3) non-progressors.

What produces this condition? Does a long term Positive Living lifestyle strengthen the immune system and slow HIV progression? How does Positive Living slow down a fast progressor?

A sufferer with HIV/AIDS not on ARV drugs can live for 12 years or more. There was a woman Ruth who lived in Port Moresby and died after 18 years of infection without ARV.

Was she following Positive Living or a slow progressor? It may have been a combination of both. A slow progressor must not go back to smoking, boozing and eating rubbish food. All will not be well.

There have been foolish and corrupt Australian advisors who opposed our Positive Living message in Papua New Guinea for their own self interest.

They told people that it was a false message. Does this mean that all doctors are accomplices in a false message?

In The National newspaper today 15 June P.21. there was a report from the University of Wollongong in Australia that 65% of Australian workers had moderate to high stress with high cholesterol, physical inactivity, psychological distress, smoking and obesity. Obviously a fake message.(joke).

If we examine the AIDS Holistics Positive Living check-list we find corresponding factors – peace, hope, love, family, friends, work, sleep, exercise, clean water, fresh fruit, vegetables, lean meat, with freedom from stress, violence, discrimination, tobacco, marijuana, alcohol, homebrew and drugs.

Corrupt critics in PNG had nothing else to offer and no hope to give HIV sufferers. There was a Catholic priest who deeply opposed Positive Living and lied and cheated to crush the message.

Forgive me dear Catholics for saying that he may have wanted Positive Living to include holy water, confession, communion and holy rosary. Or perhaps he just wanted to kick a Catholic lay person off turf he believed belonged to him.

The church existed on a different plane. Positive Living is meant for all believers and non-believers.

This corrupt and satanic priest supported the corrupt Australian gay and lesbian advisors in the National HIV/AIDS response in PNG.

They wanted a different Positive Living agenda that included sex for all, condoms, same-sex marriage and family and faith removed from society.

Adoption of children by gays and lesbians to be legal, age of consent lowered or removed for children with women and children to have rights but no responsibilities. They had no message for people infected with HIV/AIDS which was what they were paid for. Bastards.

The priest should have opposed that agenda rather than oppose our health message. He was a priestly misfit. God would have wanted his servant to do that.

So the message for all is the advice that all doctors will give. Papua New Guinea has a check-list for a broad healthy lifestyle. Much of our information came from the Chiangmai HIV/AIDS conference in 2002.

Australian lesbian predator Cox went to the Chiangmai conference but brought no Positive Living message back. It was the enemy message that supported FAMILY and FAITH. The Satan priest supported her in destroying the Positive Living message being put forward by a fellow Catholic.

EVIL IN THE CATHOLIC AIDS CAMPAIGN

In 2000, I was alone in Papua New Guinea with two daughters and a training company to run. I needed someone to help me and I found Linda. She was good to my daughters who loved her.

Those were the days when we all knew little about HIV/AIDS. Linda said she had been alone for over 8 years after her husband died. We came together and she gave birth to a son after 18 months. Then she was diagnosed HIV positive.

Linda and I were Catholic. My faith had slid down badly after my marriage break-up in Australia. I was not worthy. That feeling stays with me.

But I found there was a Catholic priest in Port Moresby in charge of AIDS care – Father Jude Ronayne-Ford. I made contact with him and took Linda along to meet him and help her face her AIDS infection.

Linda and Jude got on very well. I did not mind that he ignored me as it was her sickness. She was a beautiful lady despite her sickness. I did not see the danger signs.

I am a person who cannot sit and be taken over by events. I had visited the National AIDS Office and made myself known to Australian AIDS advisors.

I had talked about Positive Living as explained to me by a doctor in the Port Moresby General Hospital. As a teacher of Biology, my mind moved in the direction of the physiology of HIV/AIDS.

I told the priest what I had found out and he was not impressed. He told me to leave the message to the experts as I did not have the intellect to understand the complexities of the infection. He knew nothing about me.

In a weaker moment, Jude told me he had never seen a person in final AIDS. As well, he said he was a brick-layer before entering the priesthood. So with Linda, he was entering unknown ground.

For Linda’s sake, I maintained contact with the priest though not impressed with his knowledge.

He gave no advice and talked to no church groups. He appeared to know nothing of the virus and the need for Positive Living. Linda was given no advice whatever. He would talk slowly and thoughtfully like a wise man but he would say nothing relevant.

But I was moving on and formed AIDS HOLISTICS to promote Positive Living. Today we all know that the message relates to all health from heart problems, diabetes, cancer and tuberculosis. It was nothing new.

Over the next two years, my son Jonathan had died of AIDS after suffering badly from permanent mucus in the nose and throat. Linda was dropping in body and mind. This was the time before free ARV drugs. I could not afford a lifetime of drugs.

Linda started to suffer dementia. She had dreams that made her scream at night. There was a Samarai woman waiting to kill her for having bashed her husband’s seond wife. There were highlanders waiting to kill her if she went to town.

This is common in dementia in all illnesses involving brain damage from strokes to Alzheimer’s disease. The sufferer experiences delusions and hallucinations of evil people and spirits seeking to kill them.

Linda became violent to me and my daughters. She would bash the girls when I went to work. She responded negatively if I hugged them or kissed them. She was experiencing a total personality change.

I explained to Jude but he had his own agenda. He wanted to destroy the Positive Living message with the gays and lesbians. So he claimed that the decline of Linda was the failure of Positive Living.

People may remember the care meeting at the Holiday Inn several years ago. I attended and sat quietly but saw the priest talking to the security guards and pointing in my direction. Then the guards came and told me I was to be removed. They were my friends and very apologetic. Some had trekked Kokoda with me.

But that creep priest had taken a decision that Positive Living was to be eradicated from the AIDS campaign and saw his right to make sure that I did not contribute at the meeting. 

These days, the priest is just a memory and Positive Living is the only message, even among the churches. It is the collation of all health messages any doctor may give us.

He would tell me that my AIDS message was full of errors. When I asked him to tell me, he would refuse saying that I will find out in good time and my message would be rejected. Silly old twit. Did he think I was born yesterday?

The fact was that people suffering from HIV/AIDS without ARV can only live for 12 years at the most and suffer dementia and decline. By my calculation, Linda live for 11 ½ years. She was probably infected in 1993.

Father Jude wanted to take Linda into care but she did not want this. She preferred to stay with me and her family. She was being supported and did not have faith in Jude.

He had a care centre at 14 mile outside Port Moresby. He gave me severe doubts about his intentions. He selected only pretty young women. He wanted lovely Linda. Family was not allowed to visit their loved ones. The gates were locked to all.

The Positive Living message placed emphasis on family. The priest should have allowed family visits to see the loved one. The patients were not allowed to leave. If they did, they would be removed. That may have been to cover that some had run away.

So many sufferers have enough problems without being bullied by an authoritarian priest. I had the opportunity to observe the priest in contact with Linda. He had an obvious passion for young women. It was he who would look after their bathing, dressing and care at his care centre.

There was a problem with an AIDS care centre for young women run by priest. He was an old time priest who had lived in the developing world and had learned to bully the blackfellas. He would have been unacceptable in a parish in Australia.

I had the opportunity to talk to the Archbishop and told him my severe misgivings about the priest in charge of young women of his choosing. The banning of family probably meant he had sexual misconduct to hide.

Within a month or two, an order of nuns had taken his place and Jude spent his time driving around in the care centre car. Jude seems no longer to live in PNG. He may have left quietly and not farewelled within the church to my knowledge. Now all the infected women would be dead.

Jude may have been able to bully the blackfellas. But he crashed badly trying to bully me. I  am part of the world generation that experienced paedophile priesthood and sees clearly that priests have clay feet. There is no more "Yes father. No father, Bless you father".

As it was, one of Jude's priestly colleagues was shot dead in his bed for reasons never revealed.