DIVINE WORD UNIVERSITY TEAM WINS GAY DEBATE

We read in the Post Courier that the Divine Word University (DWU) team won the debate on the topic that "commercial sex and men having sex with men be decriminalised in PNG"

They argued that commercial sex and homosexuality be decriminalised from their current status as crimes under the Crimes Act.

It was argued offenders would not need to be thrown in gaol but instead be fined. Offenders could receive help for counselling and rehabilitation and such crimes that were occurring behind closed doors could be brought out on to the surface.

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Comment. Trust the affirmative side to win in a university with a gay culture. And what rubbish it took to win. How many sex workers or gays have been gaoled in this country? How many of these people are afraid to get treatment for fear of punishment? None. Sexuality or personal lifestyle is not a factor in treatment. It is all trickery.

Chairman of the National AIDS Council is a gay paedophile and Governor of the Divine Word University. He is one of the instigators of the debates.

Is that what aging gay activist retired judge of the Australian High Court Michael Kirby was doing in country last week? He was most probably invited by the Divine Word University to give suppport to their argument. There seems to be much riding on this. And a certain amount of favouritism. Let them put the debate on EMTV and let the nation decide.

Remember the university debate in England in the late 1930s when the winning team postulated that England would not enter the war against Germany. That was part of Hitler's reasoning for invading Poland. Wrong.

This is all about legalizing gay and lesbian sex. Within a year or two, the issue will have moved on to single-sex marriage and adoption of children. Churches stay vigilant. Wait for the Greens party to start fielding lesbians for the 2012 elections.

SOME FAMILIES BECOME STRONG EARLY

Use it or lose it.

If we examine the strong families of Papua New Guinea, we find that their family strength goes way back. In so many families, there is a grandfather or father who was a colonial policeman, medical orderly, soldier or road foreman.

All had a special pride in their work with the colonial authorities together with discipline and commitment. This would have been passed to many sons and daughters who also wanted to be part of the nation building.

Take any family of any politician starting with Grand Chief Sir Michael Somare and the late Sir Tei Abal. I am sure that the family of Sir Paulias Matane would have been strongly influenced by the educational role of their father and grandfather.

Strong families start early. I recall the days I spent as an officer at Igam Barracks in 1976-77. Once a term, the Battalion of Officer Cadets held a disco in their mess.

They were perfect gentlemen to several busloads of young student nurses from the Lae School of Nursing by special arrangement with the Principal. I often wonder how many  marriages came out of those discos.

This was the perfect match – a junior army officer and a young nurse. For those who did marry, their children would have already graduated from university supported by two professional parents.

The soldiers also lived a charmed life with their families. Many non-commissioned officers would have found that life in the married quarters was just what was needed for their children. There was electricity for study and watching TV. The soldiers had the discipline of training.

I look at my family in Australia. They have wanted for nothing in their quest for study. They had parents who were teachers.

Today the family has 9 university degrees. Elder daughter is a dentist with two degrees. Elder son was a Duntroon graduate and now a practising lawyer.

Younger daughter is a teacher with a degree in education. Younger son is a lawyer. The mother has two degrees and I have two. My father was a Queensland drover who sent all his children to high school.

I look at my children in PNG. The greatest gift I can give them is to be their father who has always spoken English at home.

They have come to understand every shade of meaning in English. They claim that Tok Pisin is their first language. Not true. If I pinched them at night, they would wake and respond in English. That used to be the test for German spies in prison of war camps.

My younger came to me from her mother at 2 years of age with only Tok Pisin. Now at 13 years old, her span of English vocabulary is enormous. No report in the media causes her trouble.

She wants to be a lawyer. I must admit she has style. “Daddy, I want to ask you something. I do not want you to get cross. You know I have just been selected for the new soccer team. Well last week, I broke two of my spikes. I need new soccer shoes. You know that soccer is healthy for me”.

How much? K35. When do you need it? Would now be OK? (sigh). Love you daddy. This lawyer will charm the socks off the average grumpy old judge.

Often I have her and sister read the newspaper reports of young women missing or raped. It is their education in stranger danger. I used to buy DVDs from the Discovery Channel.

My younger daughter in particular would be asked why there are earthquakes in Mexico. Five minutes later she would complete her explanation. She was equally interested in the pyramids and pharaohs.

I recall the 2011 newspaper report of a man who lived at Wild Life in Port Moresby with his children. He used to bring books home for his children and require them to write book reports.

All have completed high school. He had no education just a deep awareness of how to help his children succeed. He sounded like a grass roots professor in education.

The easiest reading exercise is for a parent to have a child read a story by Thomas Hukahu in the kid’s supplement of The National. The child is then required to tell the story to the parent and answer questions. Putting a story together is a valuable skill never taught in large classes.

By comparison with village children with village parents who have no education, the children with strong parents will usually be the ones who go to the top.

Children will not succeed if their parents allow them to smoke marijuana and drink homebrew.

JEALOUSY IN PAPUA NEW GUINEA SCHOOLS

There is a sad phenomonen in PNG schools. That is that students in class drag the brighter students down to the class average by threats of violence.

Years ago, I had a grade 7 class at Bumayong High School. There was a very clever girl in class who knew the answers to questions and was always ready to help.

In the new class, she kept doing that for about 3 weeks and then abruptly stopped to become as non-contributing as the rest of the class. She just sat like a log. But she completed the year.

I moved on at the end of that year but met her in the street in Port Moresby many years later. She was doing post-graduate studies at the University of Papua New Guinea.

My elder daughter had the same problem at school. Her spoken English is excellent and she likes to contribute. But in her class, she was long ago told abruptly to shut up “you white bitch”. So she just sits.

That is why students in PNG classes never show the results of their tests. It is all confidential. Smarter students do not want to be punished by the slower students. They just sit quietly and do brilliant work.

AUSSIE GAYS JOIN THE LEGISLATION FIGHT

The issue of decriminalization of gay and lesbian sex, transgender people and sex workers has reached a climax. Dame Carol is losing badly.

So the Australian gay and lesbian movement has involved their big guns. They think that the right word from a couple of old gay men will turn the tide against the PNG churches.

First Senator Bob Brown arrived to set up a Greens party with never a word about gay and lesbian legislation. It may be that the PNG Greens Party will become the PNG Gay and Lesbian party. Present members may or may not be aware of this. Certain lesbians will become a dead giveaway if they join the Greens.

He was preceded the week before by the senior lesbian and head of UNWOMEN to tell the local blackfellas that sorcery killings were all gender based against women. There is a distribution of men and women across the nation involved in sorcery. She is about to bring out a video on her findings. That should be fun.

Now we have the aging gay activist retired Justice Michael Kirby talking on Radio Australia about the need to remove them lil' ol’ discriminatory laws against gays, sex workers and transgender men who are all at high risk from HIV/AIDS. Sounds like a job for a box of condoms.

It is so important that gay and lesbian sex is legalized not in the interests of PNG people. It is for the legion of expatriate gays and lesbians who will flood to this shore.

It is all about the thin edge of the wedge in introducing same-sex marriage and adoption of children over the graves of the crushed churches. These fool Australians have underestimated the resolve of the churches.

So the way to reduce HIV infection is to legalize all those sexual activities that lead to infection. But they have to destroy family, parental and church authority first. Hence the focus on rights, rights and condoms with no responsibilities. It will never stop. The aim of world gays, lesbians and paedophiles is to weaken all heterosexual families.

Powes Parkop Governor of NCD referred to a survey of gays, transgender men and sex workers. Only 19% of the men did not know where they could be tested and 40% had never been tested. (The National 23 June 2011 P.17). The many women not tested may be sexually inactive or happy in their marriage. It can happen, you know.

Since when is a legislation going to make a difference? Are these poor frightened gays, transgenders and sex workers going to creep out from their hiding places once it is all legal?

All they have to do is go to the famous undercover hidden gay and lesbian care organization Save the Children and Poro Support. They can be tested, counseled and check out the boys and girls – all in the same visit.

They can visit any of the reputable care groups. Since when do counsellors demand to know the sexuality of the client? Fantasy - Justice Kirby and Dame Carol.

Why has Save the Children not set up a testing site at the gay disco at The Shady Rest Hotel from 6.00pm Sundays? In the meantime, Brown and Kirby you will put your nose into PNG affairs at your own risk. Other countries have allowed themselves to be bullied by foreign gays and lesbians by remaining silent.

This is not the Franklin Dam nor the High Court of Australia.

Pacific churches have a pure interpretation of Scripture. They are national churches not part of the Anglican upper class gay culture of England. Nor are these part of the Catholic paedophile culture of Europe and America. Gays and lesbians leave them alone.

SOME PNG FATHERS ARE LAZY BUMS

Young boys do not realize that they have a major problem. Many will grow to adulthood having had no responsibilities as young boys. Their fathers did no work which fell to the wife and daughters.


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The young boy in the family has never had the experience of work. This has spilt over to his school work and he has failed through a total lack of self discipline. His only work has been to swim in the river and throw stones.

He will grow up to marry a woman and carry on the same lack of work. He is unemployable. He will never bring a wage home and will demand a share of any money his wife earns in the market for her crop of vegetables.

His son is watching his boozing and violence and regarding his father as his key role model. He watches him bashing his wife, the boy’s mother. That is the way to go.

Young women have to take care in the man they marry. He is not worth marrying if he has never had a job. A wise woman will marry a man who is employed in business or self-employed.

The problem is that the woman as a young girl was not sent to school and will only find a man unemployable like her.

I know a young woman who went as far as grade 4. Now at the age of 19, she has married a boy who has never had a job. And she has no job. So where will their money come from?

The greatest boost to young families is coming with the Exxon-Mobil LNG project. It will provide employment for hundreds of young people together with skills, education and a work ethic.

The communities up the Gulf Province to the Southern Highlands are going to provide hundreds of eligible young men and women.

Young people who have gone on to advanced studies, may well have had strong parental role models.

Thomas Hukahu is a journalist who writes on educational matters in The National. Today he wrote of a learning culture that exists in some schools and homes.

Children follow their role model parents and brothers and sisters to absorb learning and skills without even realizing. They read books and newspapers. They write letters and lift their standard by following their family role models. They listen to conversations on a wide range of topics.

Often, the lower the education, the more stupid the man. He is firm in his own ideas based on the belief that a man does what a man does. No-one tells a man what to do. He will always smoke. Who cares about lung cancer? I do not care what you say about homebrew. I am a man and I will drink what I like.

He will never use a condom. A man never uses a condom. He will accuse someone of sorcery with no evidence. How do we help his family? We can not.

WARNING TO MEN

Papua New Guinea men are asked to read the report below. If you abuse your young family, you may be abused when you are old. Your sons are strong men and you are a weak old man.

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You will never escape the punishment of your family. You have many needs as you grow old. You need shelter, medical support, food, clothing, care and grandchildren.

But you will not get these if you were violent to your wife and children. They will keep away from you.

You may not be killed as in the story above. But you will suffer.

If you have been abusing 3 wives and children, you will be punished by three families.

BEHAVIOUR CHANGE COURSES FOR MEN

Workshop conducted over 4 days

Our family tree

My needs in life

A healthy lifestyle

Growth of our children

Needs of our children

Dangers for our growing children

Discipline of our children

Husband and wife

My needs as an old man

Father and son

Father and daughter

AIDS Holistics proudly advises our role in the PNG

HIV/AIDS response in putting the following concepts

on the map over the last 10 years:

(1)  family positive living,

(2)  rights and responsibilities,

(3)  role models, and

(4)  foreign hidden agendas.

Now we will focus on behaviour change courses for men.