PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT GRADE 10

Choosing a wife

A wise young man takes care in choosing a wife to live with him for the rest of his life and be the mother of his children.

He must prepare himself by studying at school, seeking qualifications and employment to support a family. He needs to be ready to support a wife in study and seeking a job.

He chooses a wife to help him to do all that. It is good if she comes from a loving and supportive family. A man must avoid being part of a violent and trouble-making family of his wife.

His wife makes the marriage strong by supporting her husband and children. She uses his fortnight pay to buy food, clothing, medicine, school fees and school lunches.

She gives nutritious food to the family and prevents her children from suffering from malnutrition.

If working in a job, she shares her pay and does not play tricks. She is not a good wife and mother if she spends all the money on herself.

She should not be violent, jealous and forever falsely accusing a loving husband of being unfaithful to her. There are violent women in this country who need no proof to bash a husband.

She must not spend the house hold money on beer, cigarettes, home brew, cards and bingo. She must not use a mobile phone to talk secretly to men.

Choosing a husband

A young woman needs to take care in choosing a husband. She has to protect her reputation in the community.

This will influence the boys who will be attracted to her and what they will want from her. To find a good young man she will have to be accepted by his family. They may want her to be acceptable to their pastor as well.

She should take care with personal conduct in relation to smoking, boozing, going out at night and the number of boy friends she has had. A bad reputation goes around the community quickly.

She must not have sex with boys especially those she would not want for a husband. Many foolish girls are trapped into violent and loveless relationships with unemployed bums who have no money for the family.

If she becomes pregnant, she must not tell this boy or demand money from him. He will regard her as his wife and come around for sex to bash and rape her. She has no future with him.

A girl has to keep her standards high by personal conduct, study at school and the jobs she can take. 

A girl risks becoming a loser by leaving school in grade 10, being pregnant and marrying a boy who is unemployed and uneducated.

She must marry a boy accepted by her loving family. This means she brings him home to meet the family before making any other plans. 

If the family does not like him, she would be foolish to stay with him. Her brothers, father and uncles will not protect her from domestic violence if she ignores their advice.

She needs to find a boy who will love and respect her, work in a job, bring home pay, not be a violent drunk, respects his own parents and will remain faithful.

They have to be friends, able to live together, enjoy each other's company, laugh and relax together, make family decisions, share money, have friends together, attend church and be supported by family.

They need to raise a loving family of children who become educated with jobs, loyal to the family and ready to care for their parents as they grow old.

Girls will need to be aware of the family problems that will arise in this country if she is involved in a lesbian relationship. There would be danger of violence for both of them if she took her lover back to the village. 

Most foreign lesbians will play tricks to hide the relationship. They will tell the family that the girl lives with her as a research assistant.

BREAK-DOWN OF FAMILY IN THE USA

There have been massive pressures on the US family over the last 150 years that continue to destabilize the US domestic scene.

Families have suffered massive dislocation from internal and external forces caused by invasion of settlers, genocide of Indian tribes, slavery and civil war followed by reconstruction that led to more bloodshed for slave families and white supporters. The Klu Klux Klan flourished and grows stronger even today.

There was continued segregation of African American families well into the last century. Many of us will remember the enrolment of James Meredith at Little Rock university. He had to be protected by a battalion of armed national guard. We recall the killing of white freedom riders travelling through the south by bus.

The nation was divided into the Republicans (North) and Democrats (South) though the lines have become blurred in recent decades with upward social and economic movement of African Americans and downward movement of many white families. Barack Obama was a Democrat while Donald Trump was Republican.

The period post World War 2 led on to the Korean and Vietnam Wars where white and black American soldiers fought and died beside one another.

There was a fear that the Communists would take over the world. This led to the CIA supporting right wing dictators in South America and Indo-China. 

Arms were supplied to rebels and dictators by the US Air Force. They brought back tons of cocaine to be passed to mafia cartels and sold on the streets of the USA particularly to the African American families. We see this at present on the History channel on cable TV.

Out of this era came the rise of Fidel Castro and the abortive Bay of Pigs invasion that cable TV now tells us was the direct cause of the assassination of John F Kennedy at the hands of anti-Castro survivors of the abortive invasion who blamed Kennedy for leaving them to their fate. 

The TV cable news reported that Castro stood by waiting for radio messages from agents in Dallas. A Cuban exile intelligence officer gave evidence to the investigation. But then another report stated that Kennedy was assassinated as he planned to advise the voters on the presence of aliens.

Out of the Vietnam War came the Hippy counter culture, Helter Skelter killings by Charles Manson followers and the flower people all high on LSD. That made a break of families with the past. LSD was also distributed by the CIA according to the cable TV reports.

Recent decades have seen further break-down on the US family with massive illegal immigration and the decline of the car industry. Cities like Detroit became almost like ghost towns that housed impoverished retired workers.

The car and computer industries declined as the result of competition from Asia and the outsourcng of car components.

A distressing aspect of the decline of the US family is the rise in serial killing mainly of women and children at the hands of heterosexual and gay paedophiles that gained strength through the gay and lesbian lobby. 

Young prostitutes are a special target particularly among the interstate truck drivers who take part in serial killing and dumping bodies over state borders.

A report on cable TV is that there are 10,000 serial killings in the USA every year with 5000 murders never solved. 

The USA is awash with cocaine, crack cocaine, heroin, crystal meth and prescription drugs. The Mexican cartels set up by Pablo Escobar and El Chapo will long outlive their founders. Families are in decline when children and parents bcome drug addicts.

The over-riding need is for the FBI to curb the activities of the Klu Klux Klan, white supremacy groups. neo-Nazis and skin-heads. This is being done through the dangerous practice of infiltration. 

The view is being expressed that the USA is on the brink of civil war. Perhaps Cyclone Harvey was an act of God to bring all people together.

The USA and other nations of the world must protect the family from deliberate fragmentation from internal and external forces.

That is our role in Papua New Guinea. Families are in danger.

GAY BILL INTRODUCED TO CONGRESS IN CHILE

Chilean President Michelle Bachelet signed a bill on same sex marriage and adoption of children to be debated in Congress.

Up to 4 years ago, Bachelet was the Head of UN Women the senior lesbian organization in the United Nations. She wanted to sack Elizabeth Cox. See Google.

Adoption of orphans will lead to an increase in abuse and paedophile killing of children in Chile. 

I have always felt sorry for Michelle Bachelet as she was the daughter of a military general murdered in 1974 in the overthrow of President Allende. This has not caused her to respect the safety of Chilean orphans at the hands of paedophiles.

She said that old prejudices must not overpower the love of gay and lesbian couples. At the same time modern prejudices must overpower the killing of children by paedophiles.

CHILD KILLERS IN PAPUA NEW GUINEA

Over the last month, paedophile killers have murdered two children in Papua New Guinea. One was 7 years old in New Ireland and the other 3 years old.

This has brought calls from MP Hon Gary Juffa, Director of the Institute of national Affairs Paul Barker and business woman Vani Nadi.

AIDS Holistics warns the nation that child killers are paedophile and belong with the gay and lesbian lobby. They abuse and kill children for sex. Some are disguised as loving gay couples.

They want access to children by legalization of gay and lesbian sex in parliament and adoption by same sex couples. They know they have a credibility problem and are covering up the paedophile threat by talking of same sex love. 

They deny that gay and lesbian sex will involve changes in the Personal Development curriculum in schools of Australia and Papua New Guinea. 

We have only to examine the massive paedophile changes to curriculum in Massachusetts schools over the last decade. It is all done in the name of protecting gay and lesbian children in schools. Please click:

Gay rights advocates and health educators to push for more inclusive ...

https://www.bostonglobe.com/news/nation/2015/.../gay...education/.../story.html

Sep 8, 2015 - Their goal is to make the sex education classes thousands of ... up to prevent teaching about homosexuality in Massachusetts and across the 

FOCUS ON FAMILY AT LAST

The report below will be rejected by the many primitive men and women of Papua New Guinea. They think the way to turn a boy into a man is to let him spend all his time on the street learning to booze, smoke, fight and bash women. A loving mother will turn a boy into a girly-girly. 

But loving parents also have standards of conduct. They will require sons and daughters to have responsibility to look after themselves and family. They will require them to study at school not drink home brew. They expect them to be honest and not steal.

They will expect them to find good jobs and be responsible husbands and wives. Loving families have higher standards than primitive families. It is easy to be primitive.

After a decade of families being blamed and vilified for everything by the United Nations and national gays, lesbians and paedophiles, a new day appears to be dawning for families in Papua New Guinea. 

I wish the same could happen for families suffering in Yemen. The children are dying of malnutrition and cholera at the hands of warring clan murderers.

AIDS Holistics has been advocating a focus on marriage and parenting that will strengthen family love and solidarity. Now it appears to be happening.

Media reports today on the training and awareness program of the Menzies School of Health Research on family love and well being, parenting and discipline of children. So many families have so much to learn with no sense of blame or shame.

My contribution to family in this country has been as a loving, hugging and kissing dad who told his daughters daily that he loved them. They were kissed on the forehead not the lips.

That was my down-fall a decade ago when AusAID and United Nations lesbian paedophile Elizabeth Cox determined to destroy the Positive Living family message and told the community that I was a child molester. Lesbians on the other hand prefer to kiss young girls on lips, breasts and vagina.

My elder daughter Rachael has now come to live with her dad and brought two sons after the death of Jeffrey Nape. 

She is still regularly hugged and kissed on the forehead at the age of 20 years. Her sons drive their grand-father crazy but he hugs and kisses them too.

Every day, I see my loving daughter hugging and kissing her sons. She reads books to them and sings them to sleep with lullabies that her dad sang to her. She says she learned all that from her dad.

I always think of Princess Diana and her impact on the "stiff upper lip" royal family. She had two sons William and Harry and was a hugger. She passed a valuable gift to her sons even after her death.

Now her sons are beautiful young men. William is obviously a hugger of his children as we see in women's magazines. Harry will be the same when he marries. 

A new day of love dawned on the royal family with the marriage of Charles and Diana. It is still there with her sons.

Parents give heart and love to their children by regular expressions of love. Children need to be hugged, touched and kissed by their parents. To be left alone and untouched will make children feel insecure and afraid.

Paedophiles have a more ugly agenda.

PAEDOPHILE TEENAGE THUGS IN PAKISTAN

A documentary on cable TV Crime Investigation reported on the serial rape of village boys in Pakistan by teenage thugs.

Boys as young as 10 years complained to parents after long silences of abduction on their way to school by a gang of teenage thugs who were sons of the local landlord and injected boys with drugs for anal sex.

They took videos and threatened to give these to the villagers showing naked boys. They demanded that the boys come back for sex or be paraded to the village by video. The teenagers were probably the local gay boys.

Three hundred boys told their parents who went to the police but who took no action against the local landlords. Villagers had no power. 

It became a political matter taken up at highest levels. The gang of paedophiles ended up in prison.

A law was passed against paedophile sex. But a boy or girl could be gaoled for immoral acts from 10 years of age. But they are the victims. Adult paedophiles are the criminals.

Allah does not sanction paedophile sex against girls and boys. Allah is not tricked. Paedophiles are the blasphemers.

FOREIGN PAEDOPHILES GO SILENT

Over recent months, the foreign paedophiles of the United Nations have gone  completely silent on abuse of women and violence of men in Papua New Guinea.

They have been attacked every week by AIDS Holistics on this blog and are finding that the dark side is starting to emerge of paedophile serial rape and killing of young children.

They must know that the foreign paedophiles were partly to blame for the failure of women who stood for election in 2017. 

The gay and lesbian Green party were afraid to put a single word in the media on their same sex marriage agenda.

Up to this point, the gays and lesbians have talked about their right to love, love and love. But the issue is becoming fearfully clear that many gays and lesbians are paedophile in disguise lobbying for adoption of children to Australia from Papua New Guinea.

Paedophiles can be serial rapists and killers. Gay and lesbian activists are living in a den of poisonous snakes. A 7 year old girl in this country was recently raped and killed by three men as reported in the media today by MP Hon. Gary Juffa.

This information on paedophile abuse needs to be included as a chapter on gays, lesbians and paedophiles in the Personal Development curriculum of PNG schools. There is a dark side to love, love and love. Parents and families beware.

Heterosexual paedophiles rape and kill children too.