Counselling without the spouse is an effective means of promoting confrontation between husband and wife. But that is what the UN lesbians want. They want men to appear to remain violent. That will keep the UN lesbians employed.
In 2001, my PNG wife and son were dying of AIDS. They died in 2002 and 2003. I took Linda for counselling with an AusAID advisor but was told I had to leave, even though I was her carer. The interview would not proceed until I moved out.
The implication was that as a man, I would be violent at the interview. There was also the hidden view that I had given her the virus.
The lesbian counsellor wanted to be free to question Linda about violence to her. Lesbians have it all worked out for all men. That is why they are failing to make a mark in the national HIV/AIDS response. They have a scumbag professionalism.
The following years to the present show that I am HIV negative. AusAID lesbian advisors wanted to exclude men from counselling to paint a false picture of violence of all men.